Debunking the Myth of the Bad Child

The notion that children must be controlled, coerced, and hit is a vestigial cultural organ of society; it is unneeded and destructive. Neuropsychology has undermined this lie that children have to be controlled in order to be brought up well, as upstanding and virtuous people.

At roughly two years of age, children are growing and developing neurologically, and they have not created all the necessary networks to regulate their emotions.

This is why they become volatile and demonstrate aggression. It is not because kids need to be shaped into good people, but because they are still developing. Therefore, hitting them and controlling their emotions during this stage only causes trauma and harm. Ironically, it helps mold bitter, destructive, violent, traumatized, and depressed adults.

Books Cited:

http://www.amazon.com/Neuroscience-Psychotherapy-Healing-Interpersonal-Neurobiology/dp/0393706427

http://www.amazon.com/Your-Own-Good-Child-Rearing-Violence/dp/0374522693/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1464993145&sr=1-1&keywords=for+your+own+good

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One comment

  1. Brilliant. I love your insights. Such blatant truth and I hope govts and general mainstream public etc will start to see sense soon. It makes me remember something I’ve always noticed. Children who are born sick or get cancer or are somehow disabled are treated a lot better than healthy children. No one expects them to do anything and people tend to be astonished at these children’s insights. This is potentially what all children can be and more if left alone and not controlled or expected to be something the adult wants them to be.

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